And oh dear, the shower gadget does not limit shower time, it shuts off when the water warms up, you just need to pull it to start up again, so sorry. I did not expect you to use the shower after your arrival because it was so late. The notes about toilet paper and flushing are because I have had people run through a roll of toilet paper in two days, what are they doing, and flushing in the middle of the night is disturbing to other guests.
People have left the coffee maker on and I've come home to coffee baking in the carafe.
I am sorry there was a miss understanding about late checkout, You said in your message that you would leave around 5 on Sunday, it was not in the form of a request so I did not understand that you wanted to stay here until 5. Check-out is 11:00, I believe you ended up leaving 3:30ish, please note I did not charge for the extra time.
Yes this is East Oakland. I have lived here for 6 years now, most guest feel safe and comfortable at my home. This area is definitely not on the scenic route but has many other pluses. Please note, that is also why the rate is so low, I regret there were so many issues for you.
Take good care.